Saturday, January 10, 2015

Next Time...

M and I have been discussing our "next one".  We know we aren't ready to begin trying for baby 2 just yet but there are some things that we are definitely going to do differently next time.  I really want to make sure that I write these down because Lord knows I will not remember them in a couple years.  Today I'm going to talk about things I wish I taken with me to the hospital and things I won't bother with.

Wish I had:

1.) A SWADDLE.  Holy crap.  I wish I had taken some type of swaddler with us.  Lilly slept great every time the nurses would bring her back to us because they swaddled her so well.  I was nervous to wrap her tightly so I couldn't get her swaddled like they did.  I was also super nervous to leave a loose blanket in her crib so it was hard for me to get sleep.  Next time I'd like to at least take a Halo sleep sack swaddle to keep her warm and cozy and give me some peace of mind.

2.) A white noise app on my phone: We sleep with the fan on every night and trying to sleep in the hospital was torture without it.  People are noisy!  I would have loved to have some white noise to cancel out all the laughing, screaming, and dropping that people did.

3.) iPad: definitely not a need, but it would have been nice to have.

4.) My own pillow and blanket

5.) Pajamas that are actually comfortable and a nursing sleep bra

6.) Hair ties and headbands

7.) A pacifier: lactation lady be damned, I wish I had told her to screw off when she told me I was basically ruining my child by trying to get her to take a pacifier.  Don't be afraid to stick up for yourself.  It's your kid, unless it's actually causing the baby harm, do what the hell you want to do.

Don't Bother:

1.) Pads: hospital had plenty and sent me home with plenty

2.) Diapers, baby wash, wipes, etc: again, hospital had plenty.  Although, Lilly had skin sensitivity so I might take baby wash that is made for sensitive skin again







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